Take Control of Your Dating
and Relationship Life Now
Why You're Struggling
Rapidly Changing Social Dynamics
According to Morgan Stanley, in just a few years, 45% of women 25-44 will be single and child-free.
Conventional dating and relationship strategies that used to work are no longer effective because they no longer resonate with modern women. It will only accelerate:
\Men are struggling to navigate the rapidly evolving landscape.
Online
Echo Chambers
Maybe you have sought refuge in man-centric online communities where your grievances and complaints are validated, which can feel really good at first, but eventually it leaves you feeling even less satisfied and more frustrated because they don't actually offer solutions.
Do you want to just complain with the bros? Or, connect deeply with women?
We offer solutions and strategies that lead to fulfilling connections with women.
Pickup Artists &
Dating Gurus
While a lot of this advice is fine up to a point, things like polarity coaching or the pick up artist community
fail to lead you to the deep, authentic, fulfilling connections you desire compounding your frustrations.
That's because
they have one critical flaw:
they usually give you advice that will get the approval of other guys but fail to teach you how to effectively connect with women.
What You Will Gain From This Course
Putting You Back in the Driver Seat
Online Dating
If you are still in the online dating game or returning to it, we'll help you crush it on the apps by integrating feedback that tens of thousands of women are sharing in online forums about what works for them and what makes them cringe and swipe left.
And we don't stop there - we reveal the secrets women are sharing about what they are watching for in early dating - and it's not what you think.
Learn Advanced Communication Strategies
Virtually every woman will cite communication as her primary need, and the primary breaking point in any relationship.
Move beyond shallow pickup lines and tactics and learn how to build deeper, more meaningful connections
Learn structures and tips that are easy to implement to avoid conflict from arising in the first place and how to successfully navigate it when it does.
Discover how to communicate in ways that will be transformative but are also easy to implement in a clean and clear way.
Discover the Truth About Healthy Masculinity
Learn to channel masculinity in healthy ways that enhance your ability to lead--creating a dynamic where she feels safe, respected, and cherished.
Embody new ways of being that every modern women craves and will have her raving about you to her friends.
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Remove Blocks
Uncover and resolve the unconscious blocks that get in the way of your success with incredible women.
Along the way, you'll gain the impressive self-awareness that high quality, modern women demand in a man.
Gain Insider Secrets
Insider secrets that every woman wishes you knew - and will unlock her desires.
From fatal pitfalls most guys
fall into on dates to advanced understanding of her anatomy to elevate her pleasure - but also how to listen and where to put your attention and how to communicate in ways that will make her swoon and think:
"Finally! A guy who gets it!"
Elevate Your Bedroom Game
From setting a scene and choosing music and bedding to best practices to blow her mind with your oral game to advanced techniques for the more curious, adventurous, or driven among you, we've got you covered.
Just a Fraction of What We Cover
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Covered in the Course
16 Weekly lessons with over 22 hours
of in-depth video training including:
Understanding Modern Women - and Modern Relationships
A little history, a little data, and the massive Venn diagram of possibilities
A crash course in gaining the critical understanding you need to be successful with empowered, independent, and autonomous women who are looking for a man who can meet them where they are
Choosing Relationships based on your values
Your first major assignment will be to unearth what's important to you in a relationship and how that would show up
Later, we'll teach you how to use this in dating, in conflict resolution, and to create deeper connection
How to Rock The First Few Dates (or the 100th)
If you have been in a relationship for years and think you are "no longer dating" that's your first mistake.
But she's assessing you long before the first date happens - but she isn't tracking what you think she is. We teach you what she's really paying attention to and how to wow her without needing to be extravagant. Even if you've been in a relationship for years, dating skills are critical - especially if you want to breathe new life into your connection.
Necessary Conversations
From STIs to birth control to necessary foundational agreements we show you which conversations you need to have -- and when and how to have them. Have the difficult yet critical conversations to lay your foundation so it doesn't blow up in your face down the road. If you do not implement these critical strategies, it's not a matter of if, but when
Going Deeper
We discuss critical capacities and relating skills every man should develop for dating and relationship success.
If weird arguments have been happening ... or you've even been broadsided by a breakup, it was because you were lacking in one or more - or all - of these critical skills. We teach you what these skills are and how to get stronger in them.
Boundaries
It's important that you know how to become aware of them, communicate them, and maintain them, so you don't lose yourself or your center in a relationship. Often, boundaries are thought about as barriers to someone getting in or protection, but resentments build up when you cross them yourself - in the other direction. We teach you how to honor yourself while still having her feel cherished - and why an authentic "no" will have her trust you even more.
Conflict Resolution and Negotiations
Communication models used by the masters. Sure, we teach you how to do things that will have most of the conflicts never occur in the first place, but when they inevitably do arise, we teach you advanced communication tools to diffuse and resolve them rapidly in a way that is satisfying to you both without stepping over anything or sweeping it under the rug where it can lurk and blow up later.
Personal Evolution and Intimacy
Learn what is holding you back from expressing your needs, saying no when you need to, sharing openly in the way modern women crave, and being able to connect with her deeply.
Getting Over Your Bullshit
A deep dive into what you may be holding onto that's holding you back. Unresolved crap from past relationships, limiting beliefs about relationships, women, or yourself ... and a whole lot more
Mastering The Bedroom And Her Body
Learn how to turn her on and get her begging for more while increasing your confidence in your skills. Everything from logistics and how to set a scene, to a deeper understanding of consent, necessary communication, consent, and creating a shame-free environment.
Also Included:
A 350 Page Workbook
&
LIFETIME ACCESS
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Concerns You Might Have
"It costs too much, the course is too long, I don't have time for this."
You know what’s really expensive? Continuing to struggle in your relationships. You know what's really expensive? Breakups. Divorces. Both finally and emotionally. Investing in this course will save you time and energy in the long run. Plus, you've been learning bad habits for decades. Twelve weeks to transform an entire context of your life is pretty reasonable if you think about it.
"I can just get this information from a book or podcast."
Let's be honest: If it were that easy, you’d have already done it and you wouldn't even have read this far. This course gives you expert guidance, so you don’t have to waste more time guessing. But it also isn’t just another course. This is a proven blueprint with actionable steps and assignments to make sure you finally unlock the quality of the relationship you’ve been yearning for.
"I don’t want to change who I am." or "I don’t want to give up my masculinity" "I'm afraid of becoming a beta, simp, cuck, sub, etc."
This course isn’t about changing who you are, it’s about becoming the best version of yourself. You’ll be more confident, more skilled, and more in tune with what women want. You’ll embrace your masculinity and even amplify it - but channel it in ways that make women more attracted to you.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a live course? Or is it digital/online?
This is a digital course. You will gain access to a new module once a week until you have gotten access to everything. You get to go through the course at your own pace and rewatch sections as you need.
I've been in a relationship for a while and not sure if I should stay and work on it or break up with her
There are plenty of skills, frameworks, and strategies you could apply from this course to not only discern whether it is a true fit or not. And if it is, you can apply the material in a way that can breathe new life into your current relationship if you are committed to transforming it.
And, hey, if you end up breaking up, not only do the later modules help you process the feelings in a useful way, but this course will also set you up for success in your next relationship.
Is coaching included?
Coaching is not included, however it is available. Both Jason and Mariah are available for bespoke 1 on 1 work (or 2 on 1 if it would best serve your outcomes).
Is this course focused on building long-term relationships or casual dating?
The short answer is: "Yes".
It's suitable for both. We assume at some point you will transition into a long-term relationship.
However, if you are still in the hookup-only game, there are probably other products out there more suitable for you.
This course is for men who want deep, authentic connections with women.
Duration is not necessarily a requirement, but a good portion of this course is best suited for connections longer than a one-night stand or a weekend fling.
Can I really improve my dating life even if I have struggled for years?
I'm reminded of a story in Arnold Schwarzenegger's Encyclopedia of Body Building. A guy in his 50s asked Arnold if it was too late for him to start lifting weights for the first time. Arnold's response: you're too old not to start.
Yes.
You can completely revolutionize and transform your dating life and if you've been struggling for years, the contrast will blow your mind.
How much time will I need to dedicate each week to see results?
The optimal amount of time to dedicate it is 2-4 hours a week. That includes watching or listening to the lessons and doing the homework is applicable.
Remember, we are transforming an entire context of your life. Some of the habits you will have to unlearn took you decades to learn.
Spending a few hours a week will make the payoff worth ... well, priceless.
Are there community features or ways to connect with other participants?
Yes! After you've been working with the course for a few weeks, we'll add you to a group Slack channel for participants of the course. You can share your experiences and successes, trade stories, or ask for support.
We want to get a few weeks of the material under your belt first though.
Is there any support after I finish the course?
Yes. There is ongoing community support to connect with each other.
More importantly, those who want to take this even more seriously and get even more out of it will seek out coaching from us.
Just like any other professional training, getting coaching afterward helps you integrate everything you learned and apply it at an even deeper level in unpredictable, real-world situations.
How long will I have access to it? Can I work at my own pace?
The course is an automated time-released course. For 3 months, a new lesson will be unlocked each week. You get lifetime access to it so you can work at your own pace.Also, we include a separate audio file for each video so you can download that and create a playlist to listen to.If you're a personal development nerd like us, you know what we're talking about.
What if your approach doesn't work for me?
That would be unusual because this blueprint was created based on feedback from hundreds of women. We know it works.Sometimes it is about how it is applied - and remember, communication skills are physical skills, so often "it doesn't work" just means you are not practiced at it yet.Having said that, you should notice immediate results and ongoing and continued improvement.
I am single right now. Will this course help me?
Oh my god. Yes. And it will set you up for success in every phase of your next relationship.
What if I fall behind with the assignments?
No worries.
Since you have lifetime access to it, there is really no "falling behind". That said, if you maintain a certain momentum, you obviously will get more out of it.BUT this course is pretty dense in terms of depth of content, so it would not surprise us if you wanted to repeat certain weeks to get the most out of it - or review the course once you finished.
Do I need to complete the course in a specific order, or can I jump around to different modules?
It is time release, so a new weekly lesson is unlocked each week for 3 months, however, once the entire course is unlocked you will find some lessons are more relevant to you than others, so you are free to jump around.
You may also find some lessons are in areas where you need more work, so may find yourself returning to those lessons more than once. How much time will I need to dedicate each
Do I need to share my experiences or participate in group discussions?
No. You do not have to. You can study and work in the privacy of your own space. We're in Discord if you need something, But no forced group shares.
Do you offer a money-back guarantee if the course doesn’t meet my expectations?
If, after completing the full course, you don't think it's worth more than you paid for it, we'll happily refund your money.
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Jason D McClain
Jason McClain has been studying advanced models of interpersonal communication and personal development and applying them to real-world situations for over 30 years now. A former sales trainer for Tony Robbins and an NLP Master trainer since 1995, he has guided over 500 individual clients through bespoke 6-month programs, one-on-one, since 2004, massively accelerating their evolution.
Mariah Rossel
Mariah is an LPC AND holds a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Lamar University, as well as a certificate in Holistic Health and Wellness. She has done postgraduate training in EMDR, psychedelic therapy, and is a certified Gottman relationship counselor.Mariah has taken nearly 100 clients through the Spiral since 2019.
Praise for Your Course Leaders
Mark Lewis
"Jason has taught me a lot about masculinity over the last 2 decades +. You can always count on Jason to bring an edge to the conversation. If you want to bring out your woman's sexual depth and passion, her good girl or bad girl, her slut, her adoration - watch and learn from Jason. He's effective."
Sydney Culver
“Jason is truly an evolutionary gentleman. His communication is direct, honest, and clean, while also being highly attuned and caring. I never have to guess where he stands, nor is any communication left dangling or incomplete. His masculine presence is undeniable in all interactions and my feminine is always at ease in his company.”
Kaela Valdes
“The unique thing about Jason McClain that stands out in the world of relationship and polarity coaches is he is so deeply masculine yet is so pro-female. I feel safe around him in ways that are new, unusual, and difficult to describe."
John Dalpe
"McClain is my secret weapon in all the pivotal areas of my business and relationships."